what does family mean?

what is a family?what does it mean?coz all i knoe is that,my family,taught me alot of shit..they make me think,if having a family,will end up like what my family is going through now,i dont want to start one.coz,i dont want my kids to suffer,like i am going through...so,what does family means?happy family?keluarga bahagia?kononnya la kan?family portrait,semua nampak happy,but look beyond the picture,are they really happy?are they what they potray?does a happy family really exist?question your self..is it worth it,to go through all the troubles,to start a family,then ending up to be not what u expect it to be?everyone doing their own thing,not thinking bout how others feel,not caring enough for each other..saying that i have ur back but the fact is...they cant even take care of them self...hmmm...think about it...just use ur brains,that god gave to all of u...and think...think of the future..the answer u get to it,its amazing...can be positive and can be negative..and,kononnya,its up to u to change it..wat if u tried and tried,but,yet,nothing happens...and u get sick of it..what do u do...u cant do anything anymore..can u...coz u r sick of it..tired...and u knoe,u cant do anything anymore if the others dont help each other..if they dont try,u try...but u fail..everything wont work if u tepuk sebelah tangan..right?hmm...think about all this...thank you for reading this...thank you...gracias...